If I had had only one dad, I would have had to...
If I had had only one dad, I would have had to accept or reject his adviceHaving two dads advising me offered me the choice of contrasting points of view; one of a rich man and one of a poor man
Instead of simply accepting or rejecting one or the other, I found myself thinking more, comparing and then choosing for myself
The problem was, the rich man was not rich yet and the poor man not yet poorBoth were just starting out on their careers, and both were struggling with money and familiesBut they had very different points of view about the subject of money
For example, one dad would say, "The love of money is the root of all evil The other, "The lack of money is the root of all evil
As a young boy, having two strong fathers both influencing me was difficultI wanted to be a good son and listen, but the two fathers did not say the same thingsThe contrast in their points of view, particularly where money was concerned, was so extreme that I grew pasha de cartier curious and intriguedI began to start thinking for long periods of time about what each was saying
Much of my private time was spent reflecting, asking myself questions such as, "Why does he say that?" and then asking the same question of the other dad's statementIt would have been much easier to simply say, "Yeah, he's right Or to simply reject the point of view by saying, "The old man doesn't know what he's talking about Instead, having two dads whom I loved forced me to think and ultimately choose a way of thinking for myselfAs a process, choosing for myself turned out to be much more valuable in the long run, rather than simply accepting or rejecting a single point of view
One of the reasons the rich get richer, the poor get poorer, and the middle class struggles in debt is because the subject of money is taught at home, not in schoolMost of us learn about money from our parentsSo what can a poor parent tell their child about money? They simply balenciaga new yellow bags say "Stay in school and study hard The child may graduate with excellent grades but with a poor person's financial programming and mind-setIt was learned while the child was young
Money is not taught in schoolsSchools focus on scholastic and professional skills, but not on financial skillsThis explains how smart bankers, doctors and accountants who earned excellent grades in school may still struggle financially all of their livesOur staggering national debt is due in large part to highly educated politicians and government officials making financial decisions with little or no training on the subject of money
I often look ahead to the new millennium and wonder what will happen when we have millions of people who will need financial and medical assistanceThey will be dependent on their families or the government for financial supportWhat will happen when Medicare and Social Security run out of money? How will a nation survive if teaching children imitation chanel handbag about money continues to be left to parents-most of whom will be, or already are, poor?
Because I had two influential fathers, I learned from both of themI had to think about each dad's advice, and in doing so, I gained valuable
insight into the power and effect of one's thoughts on one's lifeFor example, one dad had a habit of saying, "I can't afford it The other dad forbade those words to be usedHe insisted I say, "How can I afford it?" One is a statement, and the other is a questionOne lets you off the hook, and the other forces you to thinkMy soon-to-be-rich dad would explain that by automatically saying the words "I can't afford it," your brain stops workingBy asking the question "How can I afford it?" your brain is put to workHe did not mean buy everything you wantedHe was fanatical about exercising your mind, the most powerful computer in the world"My brain gets stronger every day because I exercise itThe stronger it gets, the more money I dolce and gabbana bags can make He believed that automatically saying "I can't afford it" was a sign of mental laziness
Although both dads worked hard, I noticed that one dad had a habit of putting his brain to sleep when it came to money matters, and the other had a habit of exercising his brainThe long-term result was that one dad grew stronger financially and the other grew weakerIt is not much different from a person who goes to the gym to exercise on a regular basis versus someone who sits on the couch watching televisionProper physical exercise increases your chances for health, and proper mental exercise increases your chances for wealthLaziness decreases both health and wealth
My two dads had opposing attitudes in thoughtOne dad thought that the rich should pay more in taxes to take care of those less fortunateThe other said, "Taxes punish those who produce and reward those who don't produce
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